Ever wondered what makes a truly exceptional camp counselor? Those special individuals who create unforgettable summers for campers while experiencing incredible personal growth themselves? At Camp New York, we’ve seen firsthand how certain characteristics transform good counselors into amazing ones who leave lasting impressions on campers’ lives. Whether you’re considering joining our team or simply curious about what makes camp magic happen, these essential qualities will give you insight into the heart of what we value most in our counselors.
What Makes a Great Camp Counselor?
Being a camp counselor is so much more than just a summer job. It’s an opportunity to shape young lives, develop leadership skills, and create memories that last a lifetime. Great counselors understand that their role extends far beyond supervising activities – they’re mentors, role models, and sometimes even heroes to their campers.
Building connections with campers is at the heart of being a great counselor
At Camp New York, we believe the best counselors bring a unique blend of personality traits and skills that create a safe, fun, and growth-oriented environment. While technical skills can be taught during training, certain core characteristics truly set exceptional counselors apart. These qualities not only make for an amazing camp experience but also develop valuable life skills that benefit counselors long after summer ends.
12 Essential Camp Counselor Characteristics
After years of watching incredible counselors in action, we’ve identified these twelve key characteristics that consistently make for exceptional camp experiences. If you recognize these qualities in yourself, you might be perfect for our team at Camp New York!
1. Genuine Enthusiasm

Enthusiasm is contagious! When counselors genuinely love what they’re doing, campers can’t help but get excited too. The best counselors bring energy and passion to every activity, whether it’s a high-energy game or a quiet craft session. This doesn’t mean you need to be extroverted or the loudest person in the room – authentic enthusiasm comes in many forms. What matters is that your joy for camp life shines through and inspires your campers to fully engage in the experience.
2. Empathy and Compassion

Understanding and connecting with campers’ emotions is essential. Great counselors can put themselves in their campers’ shoes – remembering what it feels like to be away from home, try something scary, or make new friends. This empathy allows counselors to provide the right support at the right time, whether that’s a listening ear, words of encouragement, or simply being present. Compassionate counselors create safe spaces where campers feel valued and understood.
3. Adaptability

Camp life is unpredictable! Weather changes, activities don’t go as planned, and each day brings new challenges. Adaptable counselors can think on their feet, adjust plans quickly, and maintain a positive attitude through it all. This flexibility not only helps the camp day run smoothly but also teaches campers how to handle life’s unexpected turns with grace. The ability to pivot while keeping campers engaged and excited is truly an art form that great counselors master.
4. Patience

Working with children requires endless patience. Great counselors understand that learning new skills takes time, that homesickness doesn’t resolve overnight, and that each child moves at their own pace. Patient counselors create an environment where campers feel comfortable trying, failing, and trying again without judgment. This patience extends to fellow staff members too, as everyone works together through busy, sometimes challenging days.
5. Responsibility and Good Judgment

Parents entrust us with their children’s safety and wellbeing – a responsibility we take extremely seriously. Exceptional counselors demonstrate good judgment in all situations, prioritizing camper safety while still creating fun experiences. They know when to follow rules strictly and when flexibility serves the greater good. Responsible counselors are aware of their influence as role models and consistently demonstrate the values and behaviors we hope to instill in our campers.
6. Creativity

The most memorable camp moments often come from counselors who think outside the box. Creative counselors can transform ordinary activities into extraordinary adventures, rainy days into unexpected fun, and simple materials into magical creations. This creativity extends to problem-solving, finding unique ways to help campers overcome challenges, resolve conflicts, and grow. A creative spirit keeps the camp experience fresh and exciting for everyone.
7. Energy and Stamina

Camp days are long and full of activity! Great counselors maintain their energy and positive attitude from wake-up to lights-out. This doesn’t mean you need to be an athlete – it’s about finding sustainable ways to bring consistent energy to your role. Counselors who take care of their own wellbeing by getting enough rest, staying hydrated, and finding moments of calm are better equipped to bring their best selves to each camp day.
8. Communication Skills

Clear, positive communication forms the foundation of successful camp relationships. Effective counselors can explain activities in age-appropriate ways, listen actively to campers’ concerns, and communicate thoughtfully with fellow staff members. Strong communicators know how to give constructive feedback that builds confidence rather than diminishing it. They’re also skilled at reading non-verbal cues and noticing when a camper might need extra support even before they ask for it.
9. Positive Attitude

A positive outlook can transform challenges into opportunities. The best counselors approach each day with optimism and find the silver lining in every situation. This doesn’t mean ignoring problems – rather, it’s about facing challenges with the belief that solutions exist and that difficulties are opportunities for growth. A counselor’s positive attitude ripples through their entire group, creating a culture where campers feel empowered to overcome obstacles.
10. Inclusivity and Cultural Awareness

Our camp community brings together children from diverse backgrounds, abilities, and experiences. Exceptional counselors create environments where every camper feels seen, valued, and included. They recognize and celebrate differences while building strong community bonds. Culturally aware counselors help all campers navigate social dynamics with respect and openness, ensuring everyone has the opportunity to fully participate and belong.
11. Emotional Intelligence

Understanding and managing emotions – both your own and others’ – is crucial in the dynamic camp environment. Emotionally intelligent counselors recognize when a camper is struggling, celebrate authentic achievements, and navigate group dynamics with wisdom. They create emotionally safe spaces where campers can express themselves honestly and learn to understand their feelings. This emotional awareness helps counselors respond appropriately to each situation with empathy and insight.
12. Passion for Making a Difference
At the heart of every outstanding counselor is a genuine desire to positively impact young lives. This passion fuels everything else – the late nights planning special moments, the extra effort to help a struggling camper, the creativity poured into making each day magical. Counselors who truly care about making a difference create experiences that transform campers’ lives and often find their own lives transformed in the process.
How to Develop These Camp Counselor Characteristics
If you’re reading this and thinking, “I don’t have all these qualities yet,” don’t worry! Many of these characteristics can be developed with practice and intention. Here are some ways to strengthen these essential counselor traits:

Our pre-camp training helps counselors develop and strengthen essential skills
Gain Experience with Children
Volunteer with youth organizations, babysit, tutor, or assist with children’s programs at schools, community centers, or religious institutions. Each interaction helps build your confidence and skills.
Practice Adaptability
Intentionally put yourself in new situations that require flexibility. Take on leadership roles in group projects, try new activities outside your comfort zone, or travel to unfamiliar places when possible.
Develop Communication Skills
Join public speaking groups, practice active listening with friends and family, or take communication courses. These skills transfer directly to camp counseling and many other areas of life.
Remember, no counselor starts with perfect mastery of all these characteristics. At Camp New York, we provide comprehensive training that helps you develop these qualities while building on your natural strengths. Many of our most exceptional counselors have grown into their roles over time, developing these characteristics through experience and mentorship.
The Lasting Impact of Great Camp Counselors
When you embody these characteristics as a camp counselor, your impact extends far beyond a single summer. Great counselors create ripple effects that continue long after campers return home:

The connections formed at camp often last a lifetime
Many former campers tell us that their counselors were some of the most influential people in their lives. The impact you make as a counselor continues to grow as campers carry your influence into their own lives and relationships. This ripple effect is one of the most rewarding aspects of camp counseling.
Personal Growth Through Camp Counseling
While the focus is often on how counselors impact campers, the growth goes both ways. Camp counselors consistently report tremendous personal and professional development through their summer experiences:
“Being a camp counselor taught me more about leadership, problem-solving, and communication than any classroom ever could. The skills I developed at Camp New York have been invaluable in my career and personal life.”
— Jamie, former Camp New York counselor
Professional Skills Development
The characteristics that make great camp counselors align perfectly with what employers seek in any field. Leadership, communication, problem-solving, adaptability, and teamwork are consistently ranked among the most valuable workplace skills. Camp counseling provides intensive, hands-on experience developing these exact qualities in real-world situations.
Many former counselors tell us that their camp experience becomes a highlight of job interviews, as they can draw on countless examples of overcoming challenges, collaborating with diverse teams, and thinking creatively under pressure.
Personal Transformation
Beyond professional skills, camp counseling often leads to profound personal growth. Many counselors discover new strengths, clarify their values, and develop deeper self-awareness through their camp experiences. The challenges and joys of camp life help counselors build resilience, confidence, and a clearer sense of purpose.
The connections formed with fellow staff members often become lifelong friendships, creating a support network that extends far beyond the summer. Many counselors describe their time at camp as truly transformative, shaping who they become as adults.
Join Our Camp New York Family
If you recognize these characteristics in yourself – or aspire to develop them – we’d love to have you join our Camp New York family. Being a camp counselor is challenging, rewarding, exhausting, and exhilarating – often all in the same day! But for those with the right spirit and dedication, it’s an experience like no other.
Our counselor community becomes like family during the summer
Ready to Make a Difference This Summer?
We’re looking for counselors who are passionate about creating magical camp experiences while growing personally and professionally. Our application process is straightforward, and our team is here to answer any questions you might have about joining Camp New York.
Even if you don’t have all these characteristics perfected yet, what matters most is your willingness to learn, grow, and pour your heart into creating an amazing experience for campers. Our comprehensive training program will help you develop the skills you need to thrive as a Camp New York counselor.
Have questions before applying? We’d love to hear from you! Reach out to our staff team, and we’ll be happy to share more about the Camp New York experience and help you determine if it’s the right fit for your summer.
